Holidays

Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Happy Pre-Thanksgiving Day!

In my part-time job, while checking out customers, I’ve listened to various threads from individuals about how they are cooking and generally preparing for tomorrow. One threat concerns rushing as the holiday draws near; another leans toward planning: for example, collecting the most significant items a month ahead and picking up bits and pieces before Thanksgiving Day.

My collective memory of cooking for Thanksgiving starts with thinking. I’d dwell on potential needs for items and the cooking effort. Mostly, just before the holiday, I’d rush out while still empty-handed and try to collect everything. Over the years, I learned a less stressful mode of being a satisfied dinner guest, not a host.

I have begun rethinking that history and find my perspective shifting. This year, my part-time work has introduced me to coworkers and customers who, like me, are without a family or at least none nearby. We share interests and enjoy conversations, and a holiday potluck might be appealing.

If a potluck happens and I elect to cook something, I’d best borrow a page from my wisest informants by planning ahead. I would acquire “big things” early, collect incidentals afterward, and cook segmentally instead of all at once.

Dear Friends: Learning and evolving nudge for changing perspectives. Diana